
I don't know about you, but for some reason I haven't been able to warm up to the holiday season this year.
This time last year, I made sure that Bing Crosby was crooning the day after Thanksgiving, my Christmas shopping was done by the first week in December, and my fridge was well-stocked with eggnog at all times.
However, this year the only Christmas music I've heard has been blaring from the over-crowded stores at the mall. I am still trying to come up with budget-friendly gift ideas, and instead of eggnog, I just brew another pot of coffee.
Feeling more like Scrooge than Santa, I decided something had to change! So after much deliberation, I wanted to share with you a little trick that helped get me into the holiday mood.
There is something to be said for holiday traditions. While sometimes traditions can feel coerced, they can also become magical mechanisms which jump-start our hearts and transport us to a different time- and more importantly for me- an untrodden state of mind.
In the name of said-tradition, my family and I always watch It's A Wonderful Life around the holidays. This year was no different. I found that the simple act of slowing down, taking time to remember the meaning of the season, and being with the ones I love did wonders on banishing the gray cloud I had been under.
So in the spirit of the season and with Jimmy Stewart on the brain, I came across this wonderful book that I bought for all those remaining people on my list.
It's a Wonderful Life: A Memory Book ($18.95) takes you behind the scenes of Frank Capra's magical film and makes the story come alive in new way. It features a feast of stories from the original cast, and explores the extraordinary fascination we all have with Bedford Falls. I considered myself a pseudo-expert on the film until I read this book and discovered little known facts about the characters, thumbed through hundreds of rare images from the set, and even unearthed the film's "lost ending".
It's a Wonderful Life is so much more than a classic, it's a classic example of what I needed more of this year, perspective.
On Christmas Day, 1984 during an interview with Jimmy Stewart, (a.k.a George Bailey) I think he said it best when he reminded us, "That nobody is born to be a failure, and no man is poor if he has friends. You just enlarge those two things and there's not much more to say."
I agree.
Happy Holidays,
Ms. Bliss





